w00t! It's 4am, since im still fresh with newly created blog ive been really wanting to write bout this thing, sort of a like a theory regarding how i can change things around my life.
i've to admit, i have my own past of misbehaviours and i would really like to make a change on that.
so i came to this theory the 4 ways in relation to decisions i have to make in order to make things right.
Here is how it goes :
#1 To agree positively
#2 To disagree positively
#3 To agree negatively
#4 To disagree negatively
ok, what does this for have to do to help me make changes?
Scenario 01 :
Your dad asks you "can you help me wash my car?"
#1 To agree positively :
Yea, sure i'd gladly help
Consequences : Probably, your dad will feel yourre a reliable one a blessing to him.
#2 To disagree positively
No, dad, i cant, atleast not today, ive something else to do.
Consequences : Probably, ur dad will jz go, oh ok, next time then~ u may have denied to help but atleast you do it in a polite manner
#3 To agree negatively
Yala yala, ok la, later la. i got mood oni i wash la
Consequences : might not sound so negative, you may have agreed but it wasnt a willing one.
#4 To disagree negatively
I dont think so, you do it yourself or ask someone else la
Consequences : worst of all, you cant be a blessing to help and you are rude
