Sometimes I wonder, if I were to take the easy way out. Would things have been harder for the one on the other side? Or should I take the hard way and make it easier for the one on other side?
Life is just hard... you think you make a decision that makes your life easier, but instead you are making it harder for others. Being considerate for each situation is just so complex. Everything is so subjective how can one actually make a decision fair for both? But one thing is for sure, it is so much easier to be blown away by the wind than to actually hold on till the wind calms.
To lift up a rock, we need to know which posture we must take, we must prepare our mind what kind of weight we take. Sometimes we can force ourselves to lift up this rock. We may lift it up, but we may hurt ourselves in the process. Even if we lift it up, we might not be able to hold on to it high up. If we fail to up hold it, the rock out weighs our strength and crashes down to the floor. Hurting both. Understanding is a form of responsibility.